The Parent Hub Academy
Group coaching for parents ready to break old cycles. A new format is coming soon.
Get notifiedBuilding legacy.
Breaking dysfunction.
Parent education, family wellness training, and speaking that help families and the people who serve them build regulated homes and a legacy worth passing down.
As featured
CE Speaker, 40th Annual San Bernardino Children’s Network Conference.
Facilitator of the Parent Summit, a retreat for Parent Hub Academy community members.
About Dr. Ates
Research‑informed. Rooted in home.
Dr. Ashley Ates is a family wellness practitioner, educator, mother of two sons, and founder of The Parent Network™, an educational hub that equips families with tools for emotional wellness and healthy relationships. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Human Development, a Master’s degree in Organizational Leadership, and a PhD in Psychology, with over ten years in education and social service. Her work focuses on emotional regulation, reparenting, attachment, and strengthening parent‑child relationships, translating research into practical, evidence‑informed tools for connection and long‑term family well‑being.
She also hosts The Legacy Table Podcast, where she invites listeners to “pull up a chair” at their own tables and discuss the hard things. An ordained prophet and minister, she loves Jesus, traveling, reading, people watching, and seeing transformation in the lives of families.
You live legacy. You don’t leave it.– Dr. Ates
The Work
What was handed down doesn’t have to be passed on.
Family Wellness
Calm homes, secure connection, and healthy family systems.
Restorative Fatherhood
Equipping fathers to stay regulated and repair after conflict.
Generational Healing
Naming inherited patterns and building new ones on healthy love.
The Parent
Network™
Network™
A place for families to grow together.
Speaking & Training
Training for the people who serve families.
Based in Southern California, Dr. Ates is available to speak at schools, churches, conferences, community organizations, and agencies.
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Repair After Rupture: The Regulated Father™
Regulation and repair in fatherhood.Previously presented as a CE‑approved workshop.
The Regulated Parent
Emotional regulation and attachment for parents and caregivers.
Attuned Attachment
How inherited patterns shape families, and how to change them.
Coparent Lab
Creating workable systems that provide stability and care for parents and children.
Reparenting U™
Inner‑child healing that blends psychology, faith, and nervous‑system regulation to help participants meet their own unmet needs with safety and care.
Books & Resources
Bundle · 3 ebooks
Bundle · 3 ebooks
Bundle · 3 ebooks
Stories written for hope and healing.
Grace to Pivot
Grace to Pivot captures Dr. Ates’s life from childhood through adulthood. Its journey of pain, process, and hope connects readers to their own story. Expect oohs, ahhs, tears, and laughter as the story unfolds.
Buy on AmazonBlack, Black, No Contact
Black, Black, No Contact looks at the unhealthy patterns, trauma, and family cycles that can be passed down from one generation to the next. Through Dr. Ashley Ates’ personal experience and evidence‑based research, the book explores how those experiences can shape identity, relationships, faith, parenting, and the way we learn to function within our families.
The book also takes an honest look at family loyalty, boundaries, forgiveness, grief, and what happens when a relationship can no longer continue in the same way.
This is not a book that tells people to go no contact. It is for the person trying to understand what they inherited, how it affected them, and what healing can look like moving forward.
Pre‑order opens October 30.
Free Resources
Tools you can download today, at no cost.
The Regulated Parent
A free guide for parents with tools for repair after rupture: key concepts, a method for regulation, and a repair structure for hard moments.
Get the guideDigital Products
Ebooks and planners for parents and families, delivered instantly after purchase.
Relearning Love & Healthy Relationships
A biblical and psychological guide to how we learn love, moving from shame to healthy self‑love, and building relationships rooted in accountability and community.
- Foundations of Love
- Healing the Way You Love
- Building Right Relationships
Release, Reset & Personal Transformation
A teaching on releasing what no longer serves you, closing the mental tabs, resetting your nervous system, and moving into whole‑person wellness.
- Release to Receive
- Resetting the Mind
- Resetting the Nervous System
Building a Healthy Family Legacy
Practical guidance for building legacy from within, staying connected, regulating and repairing, and raising capable, responsible children.
- Building a Healthy Legacy
- Legacy Lives in Connection
- Parenting Intelligence
Wellness Planner
A yearly planner with monthly calendars, daily and weekly pages, wellness goals, self‑care, and routines.
$19.99 · Digital download Buy the planner
Merch
Wear the Identity. Live the Standard.
Regulated Parent Society Collection
Elevated everyday apparel for those committed to breaking unhealthy cycles, growing intentionally, and building a healthier legacy.
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Let’s build something that lasts.